Monday, December 31, 2007

That humans and human relations are the most complicated things in the world must be the grand dowager of all understatements.

Yes, humans beings are just so complicated. Yet, things appear clearer to me by the day as to how human relations should be handled.

(WARNING: Haphazard ramblings. Read at your own risk)
Make your views heard but don't impose them on others. Don't pose your expectations on them either. Everyone has different value systems, beliefs, likings, temperaments. There are hardly any rights or wrongs in this world, just different perspectives. Just because you think you're right doesn't mean that you are.

Eg: Monogamy is a prized possession for many in our society but a person who practices monogamy may be a laughing stock in polygamous societies. (But one might argue monogamy is mired by very liberal thoughts now. Suddenly, it has become cool to be a divorcee and an adulterer.) So a person whom you think committed a grievous crime could just be a victim of circumstances. A pawn in the game of conventions and norms. A person who is born into a wrong society, era and family. Someone who refuses to be conditioned.

Bottomline:
Be open-minded. Be accepting and tolerant. Live and let live. Take things easy. Everyone has his/her right to live and think the way they choose to and we're only responsible for own well-being. Let people be responsible for theirs because we really don't know any better. Don't let our egos and our illogical need to feel superior get in the way. There really isn't a need to. And someone who practices that, to me, is the hallmark of a truly confident, self-assured individual.

Conversely, we have the right to live the way we want, without subjugation of any kind. Yes, we should strive to design our lives and imprint them with our personal, distinctive strokes. We should have the courage to live, without fearing how others might perceive us. Don't do things simply because others say them to be right. Do it because it feels right to you.

Caveat: Hmmm, most importantly, do no evil. Because like what Alicia Keys sang in her song "Karma", what goes around comes around. What goes up must come down.

Signing off,
A surrendered being who has decided to let life teach her whatever it wants, wherever, however.

Ommmpphhhh.

Tuesday, December 11, 2007

Lord of the Rings...

Yes, off the NZ. :P
16 days. Yippee!!
Back on the 27th.
Don't miss me, ok?
I bet you will. And my thick-skinned ways. Haha.

Monday, December 10, 2007

Glutton Me

My sis brought a piece of black forest home.
Immediately, she asked me if i wanted a bite.
"Aiya, you always want a bite of everything lah. Eat lah. Eat lah."
Ha. Yes. I can't resist food. I need a bite of everything i see.
To put it in a nice way, I'm just a naturally curious being.
I just have to find out how things taste.
Next time when you're eating something, please offer me a bite!!
This glutton needs to know if it's good!
If not, i can't stop thinking about the food and will start imagining what it would be like to sink my teeth into them. And before i know it, i'll salivate. Heh.
So...one bite please! Thanks in advance!

Saturday, December 08, 2007

5 days of BooHoos..

3 Dec:
Snip! Snip! Snip! Boohoo! Not nice.

4 Dec:
Ouch! Ouch! Ouch! Boohoo! Nothing left.

5 Dec:
Swish! Splash! Zap! Boohoo! No wind on my face.

6 Dec:
Da! Doo! Bido! Boohoo! No more flings.

7 Dec:
Talk! Shop! Laugh! Boohoo! No more egg yolks.

Sunday, December 02, 2007

Things Happen for a Reason

I find it hard to explain. But suddenly, for the first time in my life, i really start to believe that there is a Creator out there. Somehow, things in my life suddenly seems to unfold as though they have been planned, in a particular order, to make me learn more about life and myself. It's scary. Maybe our lifepaths really have been planned. Suddenly, life feels exciting. No, I'm not becoming religious. But maybe, i'm beginning to explore what spirituality is about.

I Don't Want to Sleep Tonight...

I don't want to sleep tonight. I'm afraid that when i sleep, i'll lose my sudden "right" touch for my left hand on the piano.
For the first time in 17 years, i finally feel that my left hand is really playing the piano, not ravaging the keys. This episode is rather bizarre. Somehow, it just happened. Or rather, it did not just happen. It was a cumulation of different things.
Thing No. 1: Reuben Kee
Saw how he played the piano on youtube. He made me realise what enjoying music meant, something i forgot about when i started learning piano from my new teacher and became too conscious about my left hand. I was trying to adapt to the new technique, which requires me to channel my energy to my fingertips. Simply put, i forgot what really mattered in music.
Reuben's hands were relaxed and really feeling the music, embracing the keyboard. So, Reuben Kee, thank you so much. Here's a stranger wishing you that you have an equally fulfilling life up there, as much as you did.
Thing No. 2: My Piano Examiner
I did a horrible exam again on Thursday. How bad was it? I felt so terrible that i cried after the exam, which i have never done before. Yes, it felt like shit. The funny thing is, i now feel that it was a blessing in disguise. If i had not done badly, the examiner probably would not have said what she said to me. (Yes, horror of horrors, gasps!! A female examiner. They say it's probably gone case when you get female examiners. The irony of things is that i'll probably remember her for the rest of my life for her kindness. In retrospect, she felt like the fairy godmother who helped a poor lass in total distress. My first encounter with fairies, or maybe guardian angel.) I thought she was going to praise me even though i performed badly when she said she was pretty sure i had listened to professional recordings of the songs that i played. I thought she was going to say something like this: "Yes, you interpreted the music like what the professionals do."
However, this was what she said instead: "You are not playing your own music. I come here to listen to your music. Not to the CD. What you're playing is their interpretation of music. I want to hear your interpretation. You did not show me your interpretation. Next time, don't listen to the recordings. Even composers interpret their songs differently each time they play, depending on their moods."
Ouch.
OUCH.
OUUCCCHHHH. TOTALLY BRUTAL WORDS.
Then came the less-ouch part: "You played some beautiful sounds for this piece (Beethoven). You were playing your own music. You have good technique."
Lesson learnt: Just play what you think feels right, but of course within certain confines.
Thing No. 3
ATM lent me a book called "The Law of Attraction". In it, the law of attraction is defined as such: That which is like unto itself, is drawn. In layman's term, it's called "birds of the same kind flock together". So when you think negatively, negative energy gets attracted to you. When you think failure, failure comes to you. Of course the book contains more insights than that, but this is enough to make me look at my world in a different light.
As a result of these events, i start to force myself to think that i can do it. I can channel my energy to my fingertips. I can immerse myself in music.
And viola! It really happened. The power of positive thinking.
Not convinced? Try it yourself. Positive thinking really does wonders.
Right now, i'm just going to commemorate this day where i really start to feel that i might one day become a piano teacher because my left hand is finally sorting itself out. And for the first time, the idea of turning professional becomes real.
Feels great. And no, it's not a dream.