The Most Unsexy Being of All...

Whiny. Undecided. Attention-seeking.
I dislike people who whine a lot. When people whine, i tune off. And when men whine, i feel them turning into lizards and cockroaches -- to be shunned upon sight with fright and disgust.
Call me a feminist, which i don't think i am, but i find it totally unsexy when men whine. Of course I'm not saying that whining is a prerogative of females. But somehow when men do it, it seems to add an effeminate streak to them. That they're not able to take things in their stride. Men, being the macho beings that they are SUPPOSED to be, should be calm, collected and unshaken by trivial, inconsequential things. Nothing is SUPPOSEDLY too huge to ruffle their stately shoulders. When met with problems, they are SUPPOSED to just think coolly and solve them. Hassle-free. (Okay, i have my own stereotypes about men. How they should and should not behave. We all do. Not going to be apologetic about that.)
What makes a whiny man more unsexy is one who is undecided at the same time.
"Yes, i feel like doing this, but there are so many other things to consider. Yes, i should. No, i shouldn't. Yes. No. Yes. No."
The march of "yes, no, yes, no, yes, no, yes". Regimental yet wavering.
Keep the march for the National Service. And i thought NS is supposed to turn wimps into winners.
Apparently there are some cracks that need mending.
The world is already bad enough a place with women having PMS. I don't think we need unmanly men to add to that.