Sunday, July 20, 2008

Life Oh Life!

My dear lil' friend, one who graduated from uni just two years back, commented once that ever since she started working, she has simply been working for the sake of working. She doesn't know what she wants in life.
i guess what she's going through is normal. I don't know whether i did her more harm than good when i said that life is a journey of searching so it does not quite matter if you don't know what you want.
For the super ambitious, this has got to be the lousiest piece of advice one can give. I mean, it can be interpreted as "not knowing what you want", "fickle", or maybe "just one without ambition", "a float who can only react accordingly to what life has in store for you".
For me, i really don't see anything wrong with that. How many of us actually can be really sure off what we really want? Sign-posts change along the way. Situations change. Outlook changes. Even passion and taste change.
Maybe we're just too caught up in trying to be successful. Thinking that if we don't know what we want, something is wrong with us. The fact is, nothing's wrong. Why should we think it to be so?
I'm nowhere near being successful in anything. But i must say I've really enjoyed my life so far because I've tried what i needed to in order to understand myself better.
I really do enjoy my journey of self-discovery. My connection to my inner self. Understanding what makes me feel good.
Live. Breathe.
The delusion of living a life, how a life should be and ought to be lived.
Who cares for that?

1 Comments:

At 2:48 AM, Blogger Queen Yukie said...

i agree with you .. just enjoy the moment!!

 

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